What's Your Fantasy

Pastor Brad Livingston

March 2, 2025

Main Idea

Pastor Brad's main idea in 'What's Your Fantasy' was that we must align our expectations with God's reality when it comes to relationships. He pointed out that we often hold onto fantasies that can lead us astray, such as the belief that a partner will complete us or that marriage will solve our personal issues. Instead, he encouraged us to focus on our relationship with God and personal development, ensuring we are ready for the right person when the time comes. Pastor Brad stressed that understanding who we are in Christ is essential before entering into a relationship.

Scripture References

Exodus 24:12, Exodus 24:15-18, Exodus 32:1, Exodus 32:4, Proverbs 29:18, Proverbs 16:9, Colossians 2:10, John 10:10, 1 Peter 1:14-16

How can we differentiate between our fantasies and God's reality in relationships?

What are some non-negotiable values you believe are important for a healthy relationship?

Discussion Questions:

How can knowing who we are in Christ help us in our relationships?

Why is it important to focus on personal growth before entering a relationship?

How can we avoid making a partner or relationship an idol in our lives?

Summary

In 'What's Your Fantasy,' Pastor Brad challenged us to confront the unrealistic expectations we often have about relationships and marriage. He emphasized the importance of being prepared for the reality of a partnership rather than clinging to fantasies. Using the story of Moses on Mount Sinai, Pastor Brad illustrated how quickly we can turn from God's promises to our own desires, as the Israelites did when they created a golden calf. He addressed singles and married individuals separately, urging singles to invest in their future marriage now and married individuals to work on their marriage's health immediately. He debunked four common fantasies about relationships, highlighting the need for personal growth and reliance on God rather than expecting a partner to fulfill all our needs or fix our problems.