Our Savior's Church - Lafayette
Discussion Guide

The Secrets Of A Super Bowl Marriage

Pastor Jacob Aranza
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February 9, 2025

Main Idea

The main idea of Pastor Jacob's message was that a super marriage isn't just about love and romance; it's about commitment, understanding, and growth. He stressed that marriage is a reflection of God's love for us and that we should treat our spouses as our top priority after God. Pastor Jacob underscored the importance of working on our marriages continuously, seeking guidance, and inviting God into the relationship. He also pointed out that a successful marriage is the most valuable legacy we can leave for our children and grandchildren.

Scripture References

Ephesians 5:25-26, Romans 12:18, Matthew 12:25-26

How can we demonstrate to our children the importance of a strong, enduring marriage?

You can't fix what you broke in your kids; only God can fill the gaps that even the most perfect parents leave.

In what ways can we make our spouse feel like a priority in our lives?

Discussion Questions:

What are some practical steps we can take to promote growth in our marriage?

How can finding marriage mentors benefit our relationship?

Why is praying together crucial for a marriage, and how can we incorporate it into our daily lives?

Anything left alone naturally disintegrates, so if you do nothing for your marriage, it will deteriorate.

Summary

Pastor Jacob took us on a journey through the secrets of a super marriage, reminding us that while there's nothing new under the sun, the wisdom of sustaining a loving, committed relationship is timeless. He shared personal anecdotes, including his own marriage of over 43 years, to illustrate the importance of demonstrating to our children how to navigate life's challenges within a marriage. He emphasized that the greatest gift we can give our children is the example of a strong, enduring partnership. Pastor Jacob also highlighted the significance of understanding the purpose of marriage, prioritizing our spouse, pursuing peace, promoting growth, finding mentors, and praying together as key components to a thriving marriage.

Call to Action

Some next steps to take this week:

Reflect on whether your spouse truly feels like your top priority after God, and if not, make the necessary changes.

Commit to praying with and for your spouse regularly to invite God's strength into your marriage.

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