Reverb Church
Discussion Guide

Relationally Unstuck

Pastor Bryan
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January 18, 2026

Main Idea

The core message highlighted how our relationships often get stuck due to the war between our flesh and spirit, and it is vital to adopt a Spirit-led lifestyle to transform them. Pastor Bryan illustrated that while human tendencies lean towards selfishness, God's call is for us to serve and love one another. He pointed out that the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace—serve as indicators of healthy connections with others. We couldn't simply blame others for our relational stagnation; instead, we needed to reflect inward and make necessary changes for growth in our interactions. The message served as a poignant reminder of the actionable steps we can take to nurture and develop our relationships effectively.

Scripture References

Luke 2:52, Galatians 5:16, Galatians 5:17-21, Matthew 22:34-40, Galatians 5:13-15, Galatians 5:22-23, Galatians 5:24-25

Who is your neighbor according to the second greatest commandment?

Healthy relationships depend on us choosing to serve one another rather than focusing on fulfilling our own needs.

What challenges do we face in loving our neighbors as ourselves?

Discussion Questions:

How can self-love negatively impact our relationships with others?

Have you experienced relationships in your life that seem stagnant, and what do you think is causing that?

What practical steps can you take to improve relationships that feel stuck?

The fruit of the Spirit is evidence of the Holy Spirit's work within us and should manifest in our relationships.

Summary

In the sermon, Pastor Bryan helped us explore the concept of being relationally unstuck, highlighting how Jesus grew in wisdom and favor with both God and man as a model for our relationships. He emphasized the importance of walking by the Spirit to steer clear of the desires of the flesh that can lead to dysfunction in our relationships. We learned that our connections with others—be it family, friends, or coworkers—can become tangled due to jealousy, insecurity, and unresolved conflict. By focusing on the two greatest commandments of loving God and loving our neighbor as ourselves, we were encouraged to foster healthier relationships through Spirit-led living. Ultimately, we were reminded that we need to take responsibility for our part in our relationships to move forward.

Call to Action

Some next steps to take this week:

It's time to examine our relationships and identify how we can embody the love of Christ in each interaction.

Ask Jesus to help us recognize and change our part in any relationship that feels stuck.

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