I Don't Think I Can Forgive Them

Pastor Brad Livingston

September 29, 2024

Main Idea

The main idea of Pastor Brad's message was that forgiveness is a process of releasing negativity and resentment towards those who have wronged us. It's a choice to live in freedom from the actions of others and to move forward where favor lies. Pastor Brad stressed that we can't give forgiveness if we haven't received it ourselves, referencing Christ's example of unconditional love and forgiveness. He encouraged us to embrace forgiveness as a means to a happier and more impactful life.

Scripture References

Ephesians 4:31-32, Hebrews 2:17-18 MSG, Romans 12:17-19 NLT, Ephesians 4:26-27, Romans 5:8, Matthew 10:8

1. What are some personal challenges you face when it comes to forgiving others?

2. How can holding onto unforgiveness impact our lives and relationships?

Discussion Questions:

3. In what ways can we practice forgiveness daily, even in small offenses?

4. How does understanding Christ's forgiveness towards us help us forgive others?

5. Can you share a time when forgiving someone brought you peace or freedom?

Summary

In Pastor Brad Livingston's sermon titled 'I DON'T THINK I CAN FORGIVE THEM,' he addressed the challenging topic of forgiveness. He emphasized that forgiveness is more about our own healing than about the person who hurt us. Pastor Brad highlighted various hurts that require forgiveness, such as betrayal, false accusations, rejection, abuse, and humiliation. He clarified what forgiveness is not, including forgetting, approving, justifying, denying, or refusing to take the offense seriously, and that it doesn't always lead to total reconciliation. He also explained what true forgiveness entails and the freedom it brings.