Our Savior's Church - Lafayette
Discussion Guide

Test One

Pastor Jacob Aranza
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February 12, 2024

Main Idea

The main idea of this message is that in order to build a marriage that lasts a lifetime, we must live for purpose rather than pleasure, understand the true purpose of marriage, view it as a covenant rather than a contract, abide by the eternal laws of sowing and reaping, and die to ourselves in order to strengthen our marriage.

Scripture References

2 Timothy 3:1-5, John 4:13-14, 1 John 2:17, Ephesians 5:25-26, Genesis 15:9

What are some pleasures in life that can be filling but not fulfilling?

God has given us temporary pleasures to enjoy, but they should not become our purpose in life. Instead, we should focus on doing His will and living for His purposes in order to abide forever.

Why do you think God gave us temporary pleasures?

Discussion Questions:

What are some examples of ways we can sow into our marriage to reap a stronger relationship?

How can we apply the principle of dying to ourselves in our marriage?

What are some ways we can leave a spiritual legacy for our families?

The purpose of marriage is to demonstrate God's love for us through our love for our spouse.

Summary

In this warm and conversational sermon, Pastor Jacob Aranza from Our Savior's Church - Lafayette shares five counter culture principles to build a love that will last a lifetime. He begins by acknowledging the common desire to have a marriage that endures through a lifetime, and explains that our generation's cry is to come from a happy home or to one day give our children a happy home. However, Pastor Jacob also points out that the family has disintegrated in our culture due to a shift towards anti-family and pro-pleasure ideologies.

Call to Action

Some next steps to take this week:

Let us reflect on our own priorities and ask ourselves if we are living for purpose or pleasure. If we are in a marriage, let us make a conscious effort to understand its true purpose and view it as a covenant. If we are not yet married, let us keep these principles in mind as we seek a lifelong partner.

Let us also remember to leave a spiritual legacy for our families and to show our children the importance of loving and being loved in a godly way.

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