Our Savior's Church - Lafayette
Discussion Guide

An Interview on Marriage

Pastor Jacob & Michelle Aranza
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February 23, 2025

Main Idea

Pastor Jacob and Mrs. Michelle focused on the main idea that applying biblical principles consistently in family life is crucial for building a resilient and godly family. They highlighted that these principles work not because they always yield immediate results, but because they are right and true. The couple shared their personal experiences to demonstrate how their commitment to God's word helped their family endure various challenges and emerge stronger, with all their children serving the Lord.

Scripture References

Matthew 7, Proverbs 23:12, 1 Peter 3:1

How can we ensure that we're building our family on biblical principles rather than personal preferences?

We don't follow God's instructions because they're working; we follow them because they're right.

In what ways can we prevent our children from becoming idols in our marriage?

Discussion Questions:

How can we maintain a united front as parents when facing disciplinary challenges with our children?

What steps can we take to keep the spark alive in our marriage amidst life's trials?

How can a single parent or a parent who is the sole spiritual leader in the home effectively guide their children in faith?

Discipline is an act of kindness; it's better for us to lovingly discipline our children than for them to face harsher consequences from society.

Summary

In the final week of the 'Rethinking Relationships' series, Pastor Jacob and Mrs. Michelle shared their wisdom on building strong family relationships. They emphasized the importance of adhering to biblical principles in marriage and parenting, regardless of whether the outcomes are immediately visible. They recounted personal trials, including health scares and the tragic loss of their son, to illustrate how their family's foundation on biblical truths withstood life's storms. They also discussed the significance of discipline in raising children, the dangers of idolizing kids, and the necessity of maintaining a united front as parents.

Call to Action

Some next steps to take this week:

Reflect on how you can apply biblical principles in your family life to build a stronger, more resilient foundation.

Consider the role of discipline in parenting and how it can help shape your children's future.

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